Your words create your reality

I want (I lack)

I wish (I am not in control = disempowering)

I need ( I don't  have/I lack )

I'm trying ( I am not committed )

I hope ( lack faith)

I should ( but maybe I won't and maybe I don't wanna)

I don't know (spoken as truth,slams door shut on finding out)

INSTEAD SAY:

I have

I create 

I am grateful for 

I enjoy

I can

I choose

I love